There are many ways you can make yourself more attractive. First and foremost you have to work on your physical appearance! It takes only a few seconds to form a first impression, so how you look to the other person plays a very important part in how he or she feels about you initially.
These are 7 ways to improve your appearance, do not belittle their importance as how you look often comes in an overall package.
1) Get a suitable hair cut
For women, if you are wearing your hair long, it does not mean you can ignore it for years! As it is growing longer, there may be uneven lengths that may make you look untidy. You will be surprised at how a simple trim can do wonders to how you look. Men are usually most attracted to hair that are smooth and silky and long enough for them to run their fingers through.
For men, keeping it short is usually the easiest. If you are not suited for long hair, do not attempt to keep it long as it will only make you look sloppy. If you are balding, you may consider shaving it off totally for a cooler look.
2) Watch your weight
If you have always wanted to lose that extra flab, put it into action now. How good you feel about yourself often rubs off on someone else and makes you seemingly more attractive. Men are often attracted first to women who are slim but have curves at the right proportions. Having a figure of an apple is not going to put you on his radar. Women too, are guilty of drooling over men with six pack abs than those with a pot belly. Watching your weight reflects the fact that you still make an effort to take care of your own body and health and that can give the other person a better impression.
3) Get rid of hair at the wrong places
A man usually doesn't like a woman to have hair more than he does, except the hair on her head. So if you have unwanted hair on your face, underarms, your legs, etc, do something about it. The same goes for men too, if you have nose hair coming out of your nostrils, it would be a huge distraction to the person you are talking to. These are all part of personal grooming and if left ignored, could appear as a huge turn-off for the opposite sex.
4) Clean fingernails or toenails at an appropriate length
Fingernails that are filthy say a lot about you. You may give the other person an impression that you do not bother about your personal hygiene at all. If you are not sure how to take care of your nails, go for a proper manicure. For women, you can also put on nail polish for a sexier look.
5) Your teeth and your smile
How your teeth look often affects your smile. If you are missing a tooth, consider fixing the gap. It can be quite shocking to see a beautiful person exposing unsightly teeth when they smile or laugh. If you have crooked teeth, you can consider going for orthodontic treatment to correct it while you are young. It is a worthwhile investment to make that really improves how you look!
6) Update your wardrobe
If you have a wardrobe as dated as yourself, it's time to pick up some new clothes. A wise choice is to get classic and timeless pieces that you can mix and match. Check out fashion magazines and stores for the latest trends, but do not follow them blindly. If in doubt, ask the salespeople for advice on stocking up your new wardrobe.
7) Match your accessories
Accessories like shoes, jewelery, belts, etc, can make a huge difference to what you are wearing, but don't overdo the bling effect. Too much of these are distracting and a turn-off if they look cheap. Sometimes, less is classy, and having the appropriate piece can make you look like a million bucks.
Trying to impress the opposite sex is often as simple as knowing what works for yourself. When you feel good about how you look, you will naturally exude the charm and attractiveness that you have been looking for.
Angela is an active love coach in her community and a writer for a wedding blog.
She shares more tips about love and dating at http://yourloveangel.blogspot.com/
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
How to Make Him Chase You - Dating Advice for Women
If you're a single woman, you've heard the advice that playing hard to get is always the way to go. Even in today's dating world, that advice has a lot of truth to it. We all know that men love the thrill of the chase and if you want to get and keep the man of your dreams you have to be willing to make him work to gain your affection. If you want to make him chase you, you need to understand exactly how to balance igniting his interest with being a little aloof.
There's been a lot of talk in the inner circles of single women about the benefit of being a bit standoffish when you first start seeing a man. Although you don't want to come across as being disinterested, you do want to create the illusion that you aren't at his beck and call. This means you should not always be available when he wants to see you and you should be a bit mysterious about what your plans are. Don't overtly say that you are seeing someone else, but hold back some details. You might want to tell him that you are having dinner with a friend. If you want to make him chase you, you must not appear too eager. This is one rule you simply can't ignore.
One mistake that many women make when they are trying to establish a deeper connection with a man they are interested in is they become intimate with him very quickly. Obviously the man isn't going to complain, but in his mind he may be wondering if this is your normal behavior and if every man you date gets the same treat. You don't want to come across as a tease, but it's a very good idea to hold off on the intimacy until you've let him chase after you a bit. If you give him everything up front, the pursuit of your affection becomes much less interesting to him. Enjoy his company, but don't take things to the next level too soon.
Don't put on a false front if you want to make him chase you. Some women think they need to embellish details of their lives in order to get a man interested. This approach will almost always backfire on you. You need to relax and completely be yourself when you are with him. Don't stifle any part of your personality and don't try and be something you're not. A man is interested in the real woman, not the woman you wish you were.
If you have your heart set on a certain man, there are things you can do that will make him feel compelled to spend time with you. If you are convinced he is the one find out what steps you need to take to make him feel helplessly drawn to you. For more helpful tips and a way to get him to fall deeply in love with you, visit this Helpful Site!
There's been a lot of talk in the inner circles of single women about the benefit of being a bit standoffish when you first start seeing a man. Although you don't want to come across as being disinterested, you do want to create the illusion that you aren't at his beck and call. This means you should not always be available when he wants to see you and you should be a bit mysterious about what your plans are. Don't overtly say that you are seeing someone else, but hold back some details. You might want to tell him that you are having dinner with a friend. If you want to make him chase you, you must not appear too eager. This is one rule you simply can't ignore.
One mistake that many women make when they are trying to establish a deeper connection with a man they are interested in is they become intimate with him very quickly. Obviously the man isn't going to complain, but in his mind he may be wondering if this is your normal behavior and if every man you date gets the same treat. You don't want to come across as a tease, but it's a very good idea to hold off on the intimacy until you've let him chase after you a bit. If you give him everything up front, the pursuit of your affection becomes much less interesting to him. Enjoy his company, but don't take things to the next level too soon.
Don't put on a false front if you want to make him chase you. Some women think they need to embellish details of their lives in order to get a man interested. This approach will almost always backfire on you. You need to relax and completely be yourself when you are with him. Don't stifle any part of your personality and don't try and be something you're not. A man is interested in the real woman, not the woman you wish you were.
If you have your heart set on a certain man, there are things you can do that will make him feel compelled to spend time with you. If you are convinced he is the one find out what steps you need to take to make him feel helplessly drawn to you. For more helpful tips and a way to get him to fall deeply in love with you, visit this Helpful Site!
Thursday, June 12, 2008
HOW TO AVOID PITFALLS IN A RELATIONSHIP
Growing old in health,love and wealth is the burning desire of many who believe in the wonderful institution called marriage.even as many couples desire to enjoy a fulfill old age together,irresponsibility to self and others around you,lack of discipline,lack of focus due to circumstances of life has caused many to live short of this glamorous life.you need knowledge and understanding to live and enjoy a successful marriage or relationship.through knowledge and understanding you will be able to handle matters in your relationships or marriage.
Wisdom is knowing what to do and doing it well.The truth is that until you actualize your knowledge into practice in other words doing is the key to access benefit.God want us to build the kind of relationships and marriages that will stand the test of time.i believe that your reading excerpts from a book titled build to last by Kenneth hagin jr will add the missing link in your relationship or marriages.
RESPECTING YOUR SPOUSE ROLE:
Marriage is setup or entered into to help two people,do together in unity what one of them cannot do alone ie they are expected to be friends first,then lovers and partners in everything.it is designed to bring increase to their lives.there is a saying that behind every successful man there is a woman,where you are today is a contribution of your wife or husband.
Establish a relationship that is based on communication and mutual respect. What is wrong in most marriages or relationship is basically because most couples don't communicate at all, they live as strangers and that, will not be beneficial to any of them in the end.
I know of a couple who have been in marriage for about forty years now and when asked in a interview what was the secret to their being in marriage for so long they said: neither of us has ever made a major purchase without the other agreeing to it first,we never contradict each other in front of the children,and when we quarrel we do it in privacy and never allow any third party input,we do a lot of talking you know he said laughing!
This is a couple having mutual understanding concerning everything in their lives and respecting their selves too.But in reality the heart of success in any relationship or marriage is sound communication between couples.it is vital in any relationship that the couple sit down to discuss issues as it relates to them ie their likes and dislikes so as to foster more understanding and closeness with each other.
Sadly enough there are many couples that cannot sit down today to say one or two sentences without being at each others throat.A good communication between couples is one that they are able to express themselves truthfully without holding anything back,and not being offended by the others response :saying i am right and he/she is wrong but be able to listen and agree to change his/her attitude so as to accommodate the other and live in respect and understanding with each other.if this can be done then you are on your way to enjoying a great lasting relationship.
Although some men are too macho to admit that they are wrong.A man who walks on the emotions of the wife and does not listen to her complains is actually weak.
The more you start developing your relationship or marriage the closer and more intimate you and your spouse becomes .Even though lasting marital success is becoming rare you have to work and build yours, to enjoy and experience a truly fulfilled life and marriage with you wife or husband .
So give it all it takes and success shall be yours
Wisdom is knowing what to do and doing it well.The truth is that until you actualize your knowledge into practice in other words doing is the key to access benefit.God want us to build the kind of relationships and marriages that will stand the test of time.i believe that your reading excerpts from a book titled build to last by Kenneth hagin jr will add the missing link in your relationship or marriages.
RESPECTING YOUR SPOUSE ROLE:
Marriage is setup or entered into to help two people,do together in unity what one of them cannot do alone ie they are expected to be friends first,then lovers and partners in everything.it is designed to bring increase to their lives.there is a saying that behind every successful man there is a woman,where you are today is a contribution of your wife or husband.
Establish a relationship that is based on communication and mutual respect. What is wrong in most marriages or relationship is basically because most couples don't communicate at all, they live as strangers and that, will not be beneficial to any of them in the end.
I know of a couple who have been in marriage for about forty years now and when asked in a interview what was the secret to their being in marriage for so long they said: neither of us has ever made a major purchase without the other agreeing to it first,we never contradict each other in front of the children,and when we quarrel we do it in privacy and never allow any third party input,we do a lot of talking you know he said laughing!
This is a couple having mutual understanding concerning everything in their lives and respecting their selves too.But in reality the heart of success in any relationship or marriage is sound communication between couples.it is vital in any relationship that the couple sit down to discuss issues as it relates to them ie their likes and dislikes so as to foster more understanding and closeness with each other.
Sadly enough there are many couples that cannot sit down today to say one or two sentences without being at each others throat.A good communication between couples is one that they are able to express themselves truthfully without holding anything back,and not being offended by the others response :saying i am right and he/she is wrong but be able to listen and agree to change his/her attitude so as to accommodate the other and live in respect and understanding with each other.if this can be done then you are on your way to enjoying a great lasting relationship.
Although some men are too macho to admit that they are wrong.A man who walks on the emotions of the wife and does not listen to her complains is actually weak.
The more you start developing your relationship or marriage the closer and more intimate you and your spouse becomes .Even though lasting marital success is becoming rare you have to work and build yours, to enjoy and experience a truly fulfilled life and marriage with you wife or husband .
So give it all it takes and success shall be yours
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